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    Ray

    A casual Malaysian blogger since 2013. A postgraduate student who loves pastels. She blogs freely and love creating content about food, personal, travel and lifestyle. Sometimes I write in Malay. For any inquiries, collaboration, review, advertorial, advertisement, do hit the contact button or email me at raydahpunye@gmail.com.

    It's okay to make mistakes.


    No matter how many times it takes, I'll keep on reminding myself the same thing. We're humans and we make mistakes. It's normal. No matter how hard we tried, we're drawn to make more mistakes in the future. You can aim and try to be perfectionist but you'll still encounter troubles and mistakes along the way. I'll keep on saying the same thing the same word over and over again until I'm sick of it and until the meanings no longer bothers me. I guess that's when I'll stop. Will that time come I wonder? 

    -Ray-

    No matter how many times it takes, I'll keep on reminding myself the same thing. We're humans and we make mistakes. It's normal. No matter how hard we tried, we're drawn to make more mistakes in the future. You can aim and try to be perfectionist but you'll still encounter troubles and mistakes along the way. I'll keep on saying the same thing the same word over and over again until I'm sick of it and until the meanings no longer bothers me. I guess that's when I'll stop. Will that time come I wonder? 

    -Ray-
    . Thursday, 26 September 2019 .

    62 comments

    1. Hai Ray , thanks to that mistake bcoz we learn something new from that . If we're not making a mistake , so we can't learn anything n no improvement to our life . That the human nature , make a mistake to improve our better life . People may see our flaw and always doing wrong , but only we and God who knows the best .

      Rose up !

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      1. yep agreed. you don't have to be shy from it because we're learning a lot more than we know.

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      2. this reply make me feels good. i i still beat myself up a bit too much but then i forgot how much i was learning too.

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      3. ikr. we all did. we were so focused on trying to be better while we're actually forgetting that all those mistakes are actually one of the proofs that we're learning from it. fightingg!

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    2. We learn new things every time we make a mistake and that's how we improve ourselves :)

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    3. Yes,it's normal and it's okay actually

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    4. Peoples learn from their mistakes!

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    5. we can never stop making mistake as it is part of our nature as a human...

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    6. indeed, people do make mistakes. tapi kengkadang rasa penat dgn diri sendiri, smpai bila asyik nak buat silap yg sama :(
      tapi dari mistakes tu juga kita boleh belajar and try improve ourselves kan?

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      1. yep. that is so true. We'll get very tired but that is a part of what it takes for us to be better. Nothing comes easy.
        Let's try our best and do better.

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    7. Yup, no one is perfect. We could never strive towards perfection; it's impossible.
      Instead, the more you learn/practice, the lesser mistakes you would make. Chin up!

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    8. tiada siapa yang sempurna.. Kesalahan boleh diperbaiki.. Jangan pernah putus asa untuk terus belajar dari kesilapan yang dibuat..

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    9. I really love your new layout! Simplicity yet so beautiful!
      I've been away from my blog and it felt so long. But I hope I will get back to it more frequently.
      September was a hard month for me, and I made a lot of mistakes too. But it's okay, I feel bless to have every day to compensate and improve my day. Thanks for always tuning in! I really appreciate that!

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      1. Awww thank you darling. I'm so glad.
        Oh yeah that's true. I haven't seen any update on your blog for quite some time and am waiting to read more from your blog.
        But that's okay. You can always take your very own time in doing things. Don't rush and take it slow.
        I hope you are feeling better.

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    10. It'll be nearly impossible for humans to live without making any mistakes. We are not born with perfection. We learn and grow here from our mistakes. In order to avoid mistakes, we need to limit our boundaries and risks in life. But that kinda takes out the fun in it right? I guess balance is the key after all hehe :3

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      1. Yep that is definitely true. I love how you describe it. It's beautiful.
        I was once the kind of person that hates it when i make mistakes and always end up not being able to forgive myself for even a single mistake. but as the days goes by I learn to accept it bit by bits. I learned how to accept all my flaws. And that actually makes me feel so much better. Alhamdulillah.

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    11. its fine to make mistakes but learn from it and do not repeat the same mistakes.

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    12. learn from mistake kan.. ray, blog ray ni redirect ke ad apa2 ntah.. atak tau la ada problem atau memang macam tu

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    13. harap segalanya akan menjadi lebih baik

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    14. I love what you said. I always tell myself that it is good to make mistakes sometimes because you can learn from it but it's a different story when you make the same mistake twice.

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      1. yayyy thank you. Oh yes that is true as well. making the same mistakes twice is another different story. but never let yourself feel down whenever you did a mistake.

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    15. make mistake and learn is better than feel always right hehehe

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      1. yes. that is so true. in the end we'll always feel guilty even tho we thought that we're right.
        so the best thing is just to admit our mistakes and improve it..

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    16. Mistake is a learning for us.. don't be afraid of mistake

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    17. mistakes are special spaces for someone who loves learning, taking lessons, making efforts and wanting something better. mistakes are not flaws but a true nature of human =)

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      1. yes. it's true. no one is perfect. making mistakes is a proof that we're all just human.

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    18. bukannya manusia kalu tak penah buat silap

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      1. kan. takde siapa yg terlepas dr buat silap.

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    19. people do make mistakes. cuma jgn repeat the same mistake lah kan?

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    20. dulu acah2 nak perfectionist tapi bila dah stress teruk mula la belajar hadam human make mistakes ni.

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    21. semua org bt silap.. lepas tu fix dan belajar dr kesilapan :)

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    22. Orang berjaya ibarat org yg jatuh 9 kali bangun semula 10 kali ;)

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      1. i love this. thank you for reminding me of this beautiful words.

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    23. Betul.. Sebab kita tak perfect.. Yang bagus nya bila kita belajar dari kesilapan tu dan elakkan buat kesilapan yang sama..

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      1. no one is perfect. ray selalu igtkan benda tu pd diri sendiri.

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